Flashing back to over 6 years ago, there were 10 girls at Snake River High School who I spent the majority of my time with: Amanda Jackson, Malory Jones, Anna Watt, Michelle Day, Stacey Day, Sharee Jackson, Amy Wray, Carissa Turpin, Jessica Ogden, and Debra Moses. Because there wasn't always a lot to do in the small town of Blackfoot, Idaho, we had to come up with things to keep ourselves entertained. I believe it was at our 2002 Spring Break Party (or according to Malory: Spring "Beak") that we decided to make a list of the order we thought we would get married in. The years have blurred our exact predictions, but I do remember that I was listed as the first or second of the group of 11, mainly because I had a "missionary." It would only be a matter of time to see how accurately we predicted the future.
I went to college at BYU-Idaho and my freshman year I lived with Malory Jones, Anna Watt, Jana Kunde, Julie Hulse, and Laura Connell at Royal Crest 111. Just like Blackfoot, there isn't a lot to do in Rexburg. However, there was never a dull moment at our apartment. Besides making at least one music video every week, we too created a list . Once again, because of my "missionary," I was voted either first or second to get married.
You are probably wondering where I'm going with this. Well, it wouldn't take long to figure out that out of my high school friends I wouldn't be the first to get married. Stacey didn't waste much time and met Chris Burton at BYU-Idaho and was married the summer after we graduated high school. It was also that summer that my college roommie Julie married her missionary Justin Kunde. As a side note, my "missionary" returned home that summer and things didn't work out with him.
During the last five years I've dated a lot of really nice guys (and some not so nice) but my friends have definitely faired much better in the relationship scene than I have. Too make a long story short...our predictions on the list were completely off the mark. Out of my friends from high school I will actually be the 10th or 11th to get married (it's between me and you Amanda) and out of my roommates from Royal Crest, I will be the last to get married! Oh, and did I mention that my younger sister Emily got married 2 1/2 years ago?!
Anyway, This last week I stood outside the Salt Lake City Temple as I waited for my friend Anna (9th on the friend list / 5th on the roommate list) to come out the doors with her husband Kevin Rich. It brought back a lot of memories from making those silly lists! My friends have all married great guys and I have been excited for each of them. I am in no way envious that I haven't attached a new last name to "Michele Hillman." I'm only 24 years old, and even though that is considered "old" for a single girl in Idaho and Utah, I'm enjoying my life and wouldn't change a thing. My singles ward even has me teaching the Relationship and Marriage Prep class so I'm learning a lot. Don't worry mom and dad I will try and get you a son-in-law within the next 5 years!!